When that past comes back to haunt you.

Okay, you have made mistakes in your life; every body has made mistakes in their life! Some regret these mistakes and learn to move on, others pretend to move on while others seem to live in the past on a daily basis.

But when do you know that the past is the past? That you are done with the past and it will never come back to haunt you? That even when this past comes back to haunt you, you can deal with no matter what?

If you asked me, I would say you can never know and you can’t determine when the past will unfold its self. So you choose to be honest with the people around you and try to move on.

But there comes a time when the past comes back and hits you hard like never before, you are forced to think of what could have been if you had taken another direction, and if you were the one wronged you ask, where you went wrong. Now correct me if am wrong, it is just worse when that thing that wronged you seems to be having a good time in life and you on the other hand are stack in some dungeon that seems not to open up and let you have some good air.

How do you deal with this? You don’t, you just face it. You let the pain blossom like a knife being twisted in your chest over and over; you let it throb like a migraine that has come to stay, like a bad nightmare that you can not get out of, you just let it sting. Because pain is what defines us, pain tests how far we are willing to go therefore defining our next path.

It heals eventually but the scars remain for life. It does not mean they do not go away sooner or later but slowly by slowly these scar represent good than bad. These scars define us, they remind us of where we have come from and where we choose to go to. This can only happen when we face reality.

Let the pain have its time, Relief will come eventually!

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